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05/25/2012

Wooster in her New York City days.

Losing a loved one is never easy. Saying goodbye to a fluffy-headed kookball dog who followed you, watched you, slept with you, defended you, took you on walks, spun circles when you told her she could ride in the car; who dutifully obeyed her two older-sister cats, showed up to share evening cookies, raced up the stairs and leaped onto a couch for movie nights; who got compliments and lovies from Meryl Streep on a chance New York City sidewalk meeting; who did her best to overcome insecurities from a difficult (before-us) puppyhood but still had a few demons; who barked at horses, motorcyclists, skateboarders, men in hats, tall people and the whoo-whoo! part of the Rolling Stones’ Sympathy for the Devil; who adored snow and lobster and her grandparents and Wendy the UPS delivery person and broke into a smile every time you came home…that can be especially difficult.

We were living on Wooster Street in downtown Manhattan after the shock of 9/11 (the edges of our windows still taped up to keep out the smoke from nearby Ground Zero) when we decided to add a dog to our world. A soft-coated wheaten terrier who’d had some hard knocks in Iowa and Connecticut proved irresistible, and after an improbable chain of events involving a driving detour, wilting dahlias and Pamelia’s mother needing a haircut, ended up cradled in my arms, riding home with us to New York and a new life as our Wooster.

Wooster as a puppy.

Dogs evolved from wolves into Woosters with a lot of help from human breeders. We wanted animals who would protect, love and obey us (and, yes, look cute). One trait never changed: Dogs crave the pack. Wooster never belonged to a dog pack—indeed, she started demonstrably disliking other dogs when she was one and a half—but she was part of what we called the “six-pack”: A family made up of Pamelia, her mom, our two kitties, Wooster and me. She shared in everything, from trips to naps to dinner. Whenever I dialed an Indian restaurant and started giving our address over the phone, Wooster would start barking, as if to tell us that she knew that chicken masala and a delivery man were on their way.

Wooster adapted happily to life in Maine. Here she’s taking a breather after leading us up Cedar Swamp Mountain in Acadia National Park.

Our six-pack had been reduced to a three-pack—Pamelia, Wooster and I—by the time Wooster’s body started giving out last summer. We worked together to squeeze as many walks and happy moments as we could into the precious months we had left. Wooster had one final day on her bed at The Naturalist’s Notebook, and one out-on-the-town ride-around in the car, and one last morning on the bed, with Pamelia sketching her. Dogs shape us almost as we have shaped them, instilling us with much of their own unshakeable loyalty and deep love and pack camaraderie. At least Wooster, our beloved kookball, did.

She was a good sister to kitty Hedda.

A familiar pose, this one in her final weeks.

My enduring image of Wooster: crossed paws, frog legs, ready for whatever’s next.

Nice Words
The other day we received our first blog comment written in Russian in Cyrillic characters, so I contacted our Notebook friend Anne, who spends a lot of time in Russia. She said the comment (which was addressing a blog post from many months ago about Georg Steller, the German botanist, zoologist and explorer, translated to:

“Great (fantastic) portrait of Georg Steller!!! Thank you!

Among other achievements, Steller was the first person to describe the pinniped that is now known as the Steller sea lion (below), which is found in the waters of Alaska and eastern Russia and is endangered:

Acadia Birding Festival
Just a reminder that the Acadia Birding Festival, which we’re helping to sponsor, begins on Thursday, May 31, and runs through Sunday, June 3. There are bird-watching walks, talks and boat and canoe trips from morning to night every day. Don’t miss it! We’ll try to post some highlights. For a detailed schedule of events, go to:

http://www.acadiabirdingfestival.com/schedule.htm

Answers to the Last Puzzler
1) The word reptile comes from a Latin word that means:
a) monster
b) scaly-skinned
c) creeping

Answer: c) creeping

A trio of creeping reptiles called whiptail lizards. Bonus question: Whiptail lizards are the official reptile of which state—Arizona, New Mexico or Utah?

2) The Latin root of the word amphibian means:
a) of two modes of life
b) water traveler
c) swimming feet

Answer: a) of two modes of life. Most amphibians initially develop gills for breathing underwater but later develop lungs for breathing on land.

An American bullfrog, one of our favorite amphibians.

Today’s Puzzler
What kind of egg is shown in the photo below?

What is it?

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10 Comments leave one →
  1. 05/29/2012 4:09 pm

    We will miss him greeting us at the door.
    Love, Ray and Jay

  2. CAROL NEFF permalink
    05/28/2012 6:02 pm

    So sorry for your loss…Wooster seemed to be an amazing dog…We lost cat Molly about 2 years ago..so loving and so responsive..i still feel her everywhere ..We have not felt ready yet to take in a new
    cat.. but soon…. Molly keeps urging us on… Carol

  3. jean lipkin permalink
    05/28/2012 10:52 am

    oh sweet Wooster!!! How our pets tug at our hearts……Wooster may be gone, but is in your hearts forever. Thinking of you at a very hard time….I understand. Jean Lipkin

  4. isizmama permalink
    05/26/2012 1:14 am

    I am so sorry to learn of Wooster’s death. It so hard to loose a furry family member. While it may seem a bit saccharine, I have taken some comfort in the poem, Rainbow Bridge (http://petloss.com/rainbowbridge.htm).

  5. Gini Jacob permalink
    05/26/2012 1:01 am

    I am pretty sure the egg is from a bird!

  6. Gini Jacob permalink
    05/26/2012 1:00 am

    I know how hard it is to lose a beloved pet. You have many wonderful memories of Wooster.

  7. Jan & Mike Boardman permalink
    05/25/2012 11:30 pm

    Sorry for your loss. Wooster was a great dog and so was Moxie. You have been blessed with wonderful pets in your life.

  8. Jan & Mike Boardman permalink
    05/25/2012 11:27 pm

    How sad to hear the news. Wooster was a wonderful dog as was Moxie before her. You have been blessed. Love and big hugs to both of you from Hoosierland.
    Jan & Mike

  9. 05/25/2012 9:42 pm

    how lucky i was to see and know a little your beautiful wooster…i am so happy i was there to give her hugs and love before she moved to the rainbow bridge..she was so sweet and beautiful and how blessed you were to have such a loving family member in your lives..she will live on forever in your hearts…i just lost my cassie last january after a love affair of life with her since she was a pup..she was 14 plus years old and i share your loss of such a lovely friend..my heart is with you both and i am sending healing thoughts and much love..

  10. 05/25/2012 8:54 pm

    So Sorry to hear you lost Wooster! What a sweetheart she was!
    We know she’s in heaven!
    OX Paige + M

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